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- Being unclear about your financial situation. Not knowing account
balances, monthly expenses, loan interest rates, fees, fines, or contractual
obligations.
- Frequently "borrowing" items such as books, pens, or small
amounts of money from friends
and others, and failing to return them.
- Poor saving habits. Not planning for taxes, retirement or other not-recurring
but predictable items, and then feeling surprised when they come due;
a "live for today, don't worry about tomorrow" attitude."
- Compulsive shopping: Being unable to pass up a "good deal";
making impulsive purchases; leaving price tags on clothes so they can
be returned; not using items you've purchased.
- Difficulty in meeting basic financial or personal obligations, and/or
an inordinate sense of accomplishment when such obligations are met.
- A different feeling when buying things on credit than when paying
cash, a feeling of being in the club, of being accepted, of being grown
up.
- Living in chaos and drama around money: Using one credit card to pay
another; bouncing checks; always having a financial crisis to contend
with.
- A tendency to live on the edge: Living paycheck to paycheck; taking
risks with health and car insurance coverage; writing checks hoping
money will appear to cover them.
- Unwarranted inhibition and embarrassment in what should be a normal
discussion of money.
- Overworking or underearning: Working extra hours to earn money to
pay creditors; using time inefficiently; taking jobs below your skill
and education level.
- An unwillingness to care for and value yourself: living in self-imposed
deprivation; denying your basic needs in order to pay your creditors.
- A feeling or hope that someone will take care of you if necessary,
so that you won't really
get into serious financial trouble, that there will always be someone
you can turn to.
Reprinted, with permission, as group #252, from
Debtors Anonymous General Service Board, Inc.
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